Alex Consani Gets So Real About Her Unexpected Dating Types
“European soccer player. Female firefighter. Chef,” to name a few.

Reported by Harper's Bazaar.
Alex Consani is 22, booked, and very much unbothered about being single. The supermodel — currently one of the most recognizable faces in the industry — isn't waiting around for anyone to slide into her DMs. According to Harper's Bazaar, those DMs are, in fact, empty. Her response? Essentially: their loss.
Consani isn't passive about dating either. She'll walk up to someone cold, ask their name, and if it doesn't land, she moves on without ceremony. "I have moments to make, baby. I got things to do," she tells the magazine. That energy tracks for someone whose schedule includes runway bookings, a role in Peaked, and a spot on American Horror Story. She's also refreshingly direct about what she actually wants right now — less candlelit dinners, more everything else. "I like to fuck more than I like to date," she says, without a trace of apology.
The List
Here's where it gets genuinely fun. Consani keeps a running Notes app list of her types — not vibes, not aesthetics, actual types — and she read them aloud: a down-low events planner, a European soccer player, a female firefighter, a chef, and, brilliantly, the adult children of luxury hotel dynasties. "Kids of the Rosewood owners… call me!" she adds. It's the most specific, chaotic, weirdly aspirational dating checklist we've ever heard, and it makes complete sense coming from her.
As for anything more serious — partnership, family, the whole blueprint — Consani isn't closing the door, just not rushing to open it. She wants kids eventually, but puts the timeline firmly at 35. "Girl, I got a lot going on," she says, and at 22 with a career accelerating this fast, that is simply a factual statement, not an excuse.
The real takeaway here isn't about dating strategy — it's about a young woman who has figured out, early and clearly, that her own momentum is the most interesting thing in the room.
Read the original at Harper's Bazaar.


